The following is a sermon preached on Sunday morning October 12, 2008, at Sunnyside Baptist Church.
How has Jesus loved us? How has He demonstrated His love toward us? The prophet Isaiah, writing hundreds of years before the birth of Christ, gives us one of the clearest and most powerful descriptions of the love which Jesus has shown for us.
Isaiah 53: 3 (ESV) – 3 He (the Servant of Yahweh… Jesus) was despised and rejected by men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. 4 Surely he has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we esteemed him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted. 5 But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed. 6 All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned—every one—to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. 7 He was oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth; like a lamb that is led to the slaughter, and like a sheep that before its shearers is silent, so he opened not his mouth. 8 By oppression and judgment he was taken away; and as for his generation, who considered that he was cut off out of the land of the living, stricken for the transgression of my people? 9 And they made his grave with the wicked and with a rich man in his death, although he had done no violence, and there was no deceit in his mouth. 10 Yet it was the will of the Lord to crush him; he has put him to grief; when his soul makes an offering for guilt, he shall see his offspring; he shall prolong his days; the will of the Lord shall prosper in his hand. 11 Out of the anguish of his soul he shall see and be satisfied; by his knowledge shall the righteous one, my servant, make many to be accounted righteous, and he shall bear their iniquities. 12 Therefore I will divide him a portion with the many, and he shall divide the spoil with the strong, because he poured out his soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors; yet he bore the sin of many, and makes intercession for the transgressors.
This is the way in which Jesus Christ has loved us. He suffered for us. He was wounded for our transgressions. He was bruised for our iniquities. The chastisement… the discipline… the punishment… for our sins fell upon Him. By His stripes… by His sufferings… we are healed from our sinfulness. When God the Father looked down from heaven upon His only begotten Son as He hung upon the cross with our sins laid upon Him… it pleased the Lord to crush Him. He died for us… so that we might be forgiven. He was crushed so that we might be saved forevermore.
This was not an accident. This had always been the intention of Jesus. He willingly suffered this agony for us. He knew what He was getting into when He left heaven and took on humanity and walked among us. He tells us in Mark 10:45 (ESV) that “… even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” He came to die. He came to give His life for His people.
How much must He love us? There is an old chorus which we sometimes sing in church which goes something like this… “O how He loves you and me. O how He loves you and me. He gave His life. What more could He give? O how He loves you. O how He loves me. O how He loves you and me!”
He has demonstrated His love toward us through the greatest possible expression of love… He laid down His life for His friends. He did this in order to save us. This is what it cost to save us. It cost the very life and blood of Jesus Christ. This salvation is a free gift… bestowed by the sovereign grace of God upon all who repent and believe in Jesus Christ.
Have you repented of your sin? Have you admitted your sinfulness before God? Have you turned from your sin and are you trusting in Jesus Christ to save you and reconcile you to God? If so… then you are a Christian… a follower of Jesus Christ. If so… then you are a child of God… born of His grace… bought by the blood of Jesus Christ. You have a relationship with your Creator God as Heavenly Father. And with this new relationship comes certain responsibilities.
We have looked at these responsibilities over the past few weeks and we have seen that love lies at the heart of virtually all these responsibilities. That is appropriate because love lies at the heart of this relationship with God. “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life” (Jn 3:16.)
We are to reflect something of this love in our relationship with God and others. First and foremost, we are to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength (Matt 22:37-38, Mk 12:30.) God must be first and foremost in our affections. We love Him… and we seek to draw near to Him through being obedient to all His commands. As we do so, this same love begins to flow out of us to others.
Secondly, we are to love our neighbor as much as we love ourselves (Matt 22:39.) This means that we are to love and take action on behalf of all those God brings across our paths. This even extends to those who are our enemies (Matt 5:43-48.) We are to love those who oppose us and persecute us. We are to pray for them and do good to them and speak well of them, because, in doing so, we reflect something of the character of God. By loving our enemies, we demonstrate in a powerful way that we are different than the world around us… and we are something like our God… a God who loves His enemies and does for them… even choosing to save some through the death of His Son.
But there is one other responsibility of love which belongs to us as Christians. We are commanded to love one another. And not just a little bit. We are to love one another with the most powerful expression of love possible. We are to love one another as Christ Jesus has loved us. Listen and hear the command of Jesus…
John 13:34-35 (ESV) – 34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. 35 By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
John 15:12-14, 17(ESV) – 12 “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command you… 17 These things I command you, so that you will love one another.
Jesus begins by stating, “A new commandment I give to you…” Jesus had reinforced the Old Testament commands all throughout His ministry. He didn’t come to do away with the commandments of God in the Old Testament… He came to fulfill them (Matt 5:17.) He came to do what no other man could ever do and that is to obey the Law of God perfectly and to earn the right to eternal life on our behalf. This right to heaven is something which Jesus freely gives to all those who trust in Him.
But even though it is impossible for us to obey God’s Law perfectly, Jesus affirmed time and again that we have a responsibility to strive to live our lives in accordance with God’s Law. We are to strive to live lives which are pleasing to God. We have seen this over the past few weeks. Jesus commands us to love God with all that we are. Jesus commands us to love our neighbors as much as we love ourselves. Jesus commands us to love our enemies. All of these were commands which existed in the Old Testament. Jesus simply reaffirms them and gives us the correct understanding of how to do this in light of the world’s constant distortion of them.
But here Jesus says that He has a new commandment for His followers. There is a lot that could be said about the “newness” of this command. Suffice it to say that this command is new in light of new circumstances which are about to take place. Jesus is about to ratify the promised New Covenant by His shed blood upon the cross (Lk 22:20.) When God enters into new covenants with His people, commands typically follow (i.e. Exodus 20.) Jesus is giving a new command to His covenant people as He prepares to go to the cross.
But more important for our discussion today is the fact that this is a “commandment.” It is not a suggestion. It isn’t something about which we have choice. It is a “commandment” from the King of kings and Lord of lords. It is a command which we must obey.
And this commandment is of the utmost importance to Jesus. We know this because He repeats this command three times here in the same sermon (Jn 13:34-35, 15:12, and 15:17.)
Why would He go to such lengths to express this commandment? Why does He repeat Himself three times here? Because He knew that we would struggle with this. He knew that we would fail to love one another the way that we should. You don’t need to spend much time around any church before you realize how weak virtually all churches are in this area. Sadly, we as Christians are more concerned with our own lives… our own jobs… our own hobbies… our own families… our own everything… to truly care about one another. We are constantly being pulled apart… and we simply do not love one another the way that we should. Jesus wants to make sure that we realize the importance of this commandment to love one another. So in case we missed it the first time… He repeats a second time… and then a third time for good measure.
What is this new commandment? “To love one another.” The Greek implies that we are to love one another continuously… all the time… without exception and without fail. We are to feel affection for one another which leads us to take action on behalf of one another constantly. This should characterize our lives. As Christians… love for one another should mark our lives.
Notice very specifically that this is a command to love “one another.” This is a command to love within in the Body of Christ. We might think that the command to “love our neighbors as ourselves” would suffice here. But Jesus has something else in mind. The love that He demands of us within the Church is greater than to simply love “as much as we love ourselves.” No. We are told to love one another “just as Jesus has loved us.”
How has Jesus loved us? I hope that we have seen a glimpse of how Jesus has loved us and demonstrated this love to us through our reading of Isaiah 53. Jesus has loved us with the greatest possible expression of love. Jesus sums this up for us in John 15:13… “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.”
Is there a greater expression of love than this? Of course not! We all know that this is the greatest possible expression of love. This is hard-wired into our psyches. Whether we are a Christian or non-Christian, we understand that there is no greater expression of love than to lay down one’s life for a friend. That is why we see this idea of self-sacrifice appear so often in our fiction and literature.
Have you ever read Charles Dickens’ novel, “A Tale of Two Cities”? The story tells us about a fictional man named Charles Darnay, who is caught up in the political upheaval of the French Revolution. Although he has done nothing worthy of death, he is unjustly found to be guilty and sentenced to be put to death by guillotine. In the end, a man named Sydney Carton, secretly drugs him and takes his place in prison, sending Charles out of the country with the woman they both love and he takes his place at the guillotine to be executed. The book ends with Sydney uttering those famous words, “It is a far better thing I do now than I have ever done before.” What makes this act so much better than anything else he has ever done? This is the ultimate act of love.
Have you ever seen the movie “Saving Private Ryan”? Why does the old man Ryan weep in the cemetery at the end of the movie? Because he is remembering the sacrifice of others on his behalf. Because he knows… and we do as well… that there is no greater love than that a person might lay down their life for a friend.
“Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down their life for his friends.”
Do you see what Jesus commands of us here? It is awesome in its scope. He commands us to love one another as much as He has loved us. He commands us to have this same self-sacrificing love toward one another. Now there are some senses in which we cannot love the way in which Jesus has loved us. Jesus loved us and died as a substitute for our sin. We cannot die on behalf of others in the same way. But we can take the pattern of His self-sacrificing death and apply it to our lives as a pattern of how we are to love others.
What does this look like? The Apostle Paul provides some excellent commentary on this in Philippians 2:3-8…
Philippians 2:3-8 (ESV) – 3 Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. 4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. 5 Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, 6 who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.
Notice how Paul describes Jesus’ love for us. He cared for our needs above His own. He was willing to yield His own comfort and pleasure on behalf of meeting our needs. He placed our needs above His own rights and privileges. He was infinitely committed to doing whatever was necessary…indeed, whatever was possible on behalf of His friends for their eternal good.
What does this look like for us today? It means that we must think more highly of others than we do of ourselves. We must seek the good of others above our own good. This is not easy. It will, at least, mean that we will be required to give up some of our time or money or energy or sleep or hobbies on behalf of others. It means hurting… because it hurts to lay down your life for someone. But if we care about them more than we care about ourselves, then we will be willing to hurt in loving others.
Jesus commands us to love one another… and to do so by laying down our lives for one another.
Why would Jesus expect this of us? What is the point? Jesus says there are two results of loving one another as He has loved us.
The first result is seen here in John 15:14… “You are my friends if you do what I command you.” Why is this so? As we have seen, Jesus loves those who are His. He loved us enough to give His life for us. One of the ways in which we demonstrate our friendship with Him is by loving those He loves. This is easy to illustrate in our human relationships. For example, if you are a parent, then one of the most powerful ways for someone to demonstrate their love for you is to show love for your children. By loving our children and caring for them and giving up on behalf of them, we experience a sense of their love for us.
The same is true in our relationship with Jesus. When we love one another and consider our fellow Christians as more important than ourselves and sacrifice on behalf of one another, then in some sense, we are demonstrating our love for Jesus.
This is only the first reason why we are to love one another. There is a second reason given us here as well. Jesus says that “By this all people will know that you are my disciples…” Through our love for one another, all people will know that we are followers of Jesus.
Think about this for a moment. Notice what the text does not say. It does not say that all people will be converted. It doesn’t even say that all people will come to know who Jesus is. It doesn’t say that all people will be saved. But it does say that everyone will identify us with Jesus. There is a sense in which our identity is lost in Him. When we love one another as He has loved us… when we reflect something of what He is like in our relationship with one another… then the world knows that we are with Him. When we love one another, then the world knows that we are His disciples.
I find this fascinating. There are many different ideas being put forth today about how we as Christians should stand out in the world. It is suggested that the world will know we are Christians by our morality, or our commitment to social justice or our conservative politics. But this isn’t what Jesus says. He doesn’t say that the world will recognize us as His disciples because of our morality. He doesn’t say that all men will know we are His followers because of our commitment to social justice. Or because of our conservative stance on politics. Or anything else, for that matter. Jesus says they will know that we are His disciples by the way in which we love one another. Love within the Body of Christ will cause the whole world to sit up and take notice that we are with Him (Ryle, Expository Thoughts on John, Jn 13:31-38, 275.)
We have seen this on and off again throughout church history. Tertullian (155-230 AD), one of the early church fathers, stated that the heathens of his day took notice of the fact that Christians loved one another. Love within the Body of Christ caused the world to pay attention to the Church. The Christians of His day stood out, because they reflected the love of Christ to one another. However, in contrast, a couple hundred years later, Chrysostom (349-407 AD) would make the opposite comment. He said that nothing caused the heathen to stumble as much as the fact that Christians did not love one another they way that they should (Morris, NICNT, John, 633.)
Which one of these 2 extremes describes Christians today? Does the world see us continually loving one another and sacrificing for one another? Does the world look at us and know that we are Jesus’ disciples? Or does our lack of love for one another provide a stumbling block to the world? Does the world around us look at us and see nothing special? Can they see Jesus in the way we love one another?
Notice that Jesus says they will know we are His disciples “if” we love one another. Notice that this is a conditional statement. If we love one another… then the world will know that we are His disciples. If we don’t love one another… then the world will not know that we with Him. Each of these commands has a conditionality attached to it. Jesus recognizes that we will not always fulfill this command. We are to strive for to live our lives in obedience to this command, but we will fall short of this command. If we are honest with ourselves… then this command serves as another example of our sinfulness. We all fall short of the glory of God (Rom 3:23.) We all fall short of that which God demands of us. That is why we need a Savior. That is why Jesus died for us. Even as Christians… born again by the Spirit of God to new life in Christ… we still fall short… and we still need a Savior. This command should humble us anew and bring us all to the foot of the cross to confess our sins and ask that God will forgive us our sins, because Jesus died for us (I Jn 1:9.)
If we are a Christian and we are convicted by this command… then what we can do? How can deal with our sin in this area?
Begin with confession. We should all acknowledge our failure to love one another as Jesus has loved us. Confess this sin before God and trust that He will forgive us and cleanse us from this sin.
Then spend much time meditating on the love which Jesus has shown us. Jesus laid down His life for us! He died and was buried and rose again so that we might be saved and reconciled to God. Ponder the greatness of His love for you! Praise God for this every day!
Something tends to happen to us as we meditate on the cross. We become more loving people. John tells us in his first epistle that love is from God (I Jn 4:7) and we only know what love is through the cross of Jesus Christ (I Jn 4:9.) As we ponder the love of God in Jesus Christ… we come to understand love and manifest this love to others.
I would urge you, Christian… spend much time pondering the love of God in Jesus Christ… and pray that God will bring forth this same love in your relationships with one another. And may your whole community come to know that you are His disciples!